I've been divorced 2 years. I feel nothing for my gf. WTF is wrong with me.
I was married for 8 years to an amazing girl and had the best time of my life, but I neglected the relationship and she divorced me, cut me off, and will not speak to me. I spent a few months alone, and met my current girlfriend. We fight often, mainly over the same thing.
She says she doesn't feel loved, and she needs "more" from me. But I don't really feel anything. I feel like the romantic/loving part of my brain is dead. I appreciate her, and I care about her happiness, but I don't really care if I am with her. I have been dating her for almost 2 years now. What should I do? It feels like I had the absolute love of my life.. and now I'm just... existing. How long should I wait around feeling like this before I either cut it off with my current gf, or what? I feel like a complete asshole for feeling nothing...