attraction, why is it not always there?
Hello All,
I have a gf and we have been dating for over a year now. I sometimes feel that I am not attracted to her. She is a very good looking woman but I just can't find the attraction. Is this normal? It's times that I am very very attracted and I can't wait to get inside the door so I can start kissing her and so on. Most of the time though, I don't feel the attraction of the chemistry in the air. She is a wonderful person, really easy to cope with and she is very understanding and loving. She is everything a man would ever ask for and more. But still.. why do I feel this way? My attraction to her is not consistent, I might be attracted for a week or two and everything feels like heaven ... and then suddently one day I feel no attraction and I go into the "acting" mode. I tell her that she is beautiful and I kiss her even though I don't really feel like it. All I wonder is if anyone else ever had the same experience? Not consistenly being attracted to a person. Can it be that I have a personal problem?
please help, any advice is useful