Advice needed. How am I doing with this girl?

All right, last night I went to this party. I met this girl there, we were both tipsy (who isn't at parties?) and we hooked up ( made out, held hands, that sort of stuff, not sex). After I met her, we were with each other the whole night...

So, obviously we exchange number. And today, here is how our little texting chat went:

Her. Thanks so much :)
Me. For what lol
Her. Taking care of me lol
Me. lol you weren't that bad
feeling better today? :p
Her. I know but i still needed to say thanks. Um im alright, my head hurts :(
Me. thats not good :( hope you feel better.
we should chill again soon (:
Her. Thanks :) yeah we should, i agree
Her. Just found out i gave my friend a black eye last night by accident lolol
Me. haha how'd you manage to do that lol
Her. I think i fell on her face :S
Me. and she got a black eye
how is that even possible aha :p
Her. Yeah i dunno but apparently she has a black eye now lol
Me. lol a least you had a good night, I hope (;
Her. I had an excellent time ;)
Me. :) should do it again.
Her. For sureeee

I just ended it there. What do you think? What should I do?

Well done.

Set something up. I'd wait about two days to contact her again, but your next contact should be following through.

Ask her to do something specific rather than just hinting that you two should hang out again. Mathias is right. Follow through.

Just be careful, the chick is obviously violent if she gave her friend a black eye. :)

Ask her on a date with just you two. Go to a movie, a walk in a park, to the zoo, go to a museum of some sort, go to a concert, etc.

And wear a hockey mask so she doesn't give you a black eye. :)

Lol, so you agree I'm doing good?

I wanted to chat with her more, and get to know her better but whatever...

I was thinking a lunch date, what do you think? Or something on the weekend?

Is this a good line to use:

"wanna grab a drink/coffee/whatever as long as you promise no black eyes!"

What do you think?

that should be fine. girls like it when you make them laugh and i bet that'll make her laugh (or smile at the very least as she reads it)

You should have asked her out for a date after that convo. assuming you want more than a one-time thing with her. Sounds like shes just already waiting for you to say the words so dont game play at this point and ask her out at least

You really think so?

I'll ask her out for lunch tomorrow or something and see how it goes...

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You really think so?

I'll ask her out for lunch tomorrow or something and see how it goes...

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Not lunch.

Coffee/drink/etc. Not lunch.

Yep, and agree with the above poster, on a first date, you dont want to make her feel uncomfortable by stuffing her face infront of you, especially when shes trying to talk at the same time lol.

Lol. All right, thanks for the advice everyone!

Anyone else have anything to say?

I'm going to ask her for a drink or something later today, how do you think I should do it?

Kay so here we go. I asked her out for lunch, and we out yesterday. Tell me how I did with the texting .

Me: whaaat are you doing for lunch tomorrow
Her: nothing right now, Pourquoi?
Me: want to go out for lunch tomorrow as long as you promise no black eyes
Her: Haha funny! Yeah sure, why not
Her: Oh and i promise no black eyes
Me: haha what times your lunch?
Her: 1045 - 1200
Me: k my friends coming to so bring a friend haha
Her: okiedokie
Me: lol k ill text you in the morning (:
Her: Ok see you tomorrow!

You did good, man. I don't see anything to criticize. Keep me posted til you have sex with her.