Girlfriend has called a break what do i do?
We have been together for 9 months and she moved 200 miles away to start university for her first year. (This year I have started my 4th/final year)
The day before she left she expressed her deepest love, and for a self confessed ''un-emotion" type like herself, doing that was like breaking down a brick wall she caves herself in. So I deeply respect that of her.
From the day she moved we didn't have much contact, I gave her space to relax and forget about me for a while so she can adapt to her new life. Maybe too much? A week since she moved (3 days ago) she phoned me and announced the break. But i do understand and respect the fact that it is a huge part of her life right now, moving so far away from her family/friends/and her normal life. (In the break she said we just don't speak for a while and she will call me when she is ready)
I believe love is a lot of things, but believe it is also about doing special things by showing you love them, e.g surprise visits, romantic shin digs, little trinkets etc. I feel as though I haven't shown how much I love her recently. I hope this isn't why she called for a break. (is it too late for me to send her this cheap ass ring she wanted so badly? Could it reignite us? lame but she would find it cute.
I do believe we will get back together, but the wait is killing me, it's been 2 full days now and I need to know her decision.
I do not want to let her slide, she means the world to me and from what I get from her, I was her rock.
Do you think she will come to her senses or will it take some sort of action on my behalf by 'breaking the silence' or doing something courageous?
Just general friendly advice would be kind, i'm determined to not let myself get down about this one. I need pick-me-up ideas, something to stop me from thinking too much about it all. Its quite hard.. I don't want it to rub off onto my housemates; I try to keep smiling.
Thanks people