Mixed signals on first date. He's 11 years my senior.
He's 34 and I'm 23. We talked on the phone twice before we met for a few hours each time and really enjoyed talking to eachother. We were texting a lot of pics to each other and he kept telling me how beautiful I am. He was really impressed at how mature and intelligent I am for my age. We are both looking for a serious relationship. I even told him how I loved that he had a little girl and I ment it 100%.
We decided to go to the local drive in theature for our first meeting. It started really great. He told me I looked just like I did in my pics. At the movies he was laughing, chatting and telling jokes. I was a little shy only because he was way more attractive in person that I could have imagined but I was doing my share of chatting and laughing at his goofy jokes. He would touch my leg each time he talked to me and was looking me in the eyes and seemed really comfortable around me.
BUT Half way throught the second movie he decided to call it a night. We were together about 2.5 hours at this point. I know he may have just wanted to go home and see his little girl since he doesn't have full custody, which is fine but that's not what he told me. He said the movie was kinda dumb and he was tired. He drove about 30 miles on his motorcycle to see me so maybe he didn't want to drive back tired? Also, he checked his facebook once during the date but asked if it was ok first.
At the end he gave me a big hug and a kiss on the forhead. I thanked him for coming to see me. He asked me if I wanted him to text me when he was home to make sure he arrived safe and I said sure. He did text. I asked if I was has he expected and he texted "yes :-)". But we only exchanged 4 text and he mention nothing about if he enjoyed the date or if he wanted to see me again. Also he had said before we met that he was thinking about taking down his dating profile but he was online today.
What is this guy thinking? Could age be the issue? Also he is recently divorced, could this have something to do with it? Do you think he'll call? Also, should I contact him if he does not call me first? He seemed really suprised that I would be interested in him so maybe he's just nervous? Even though there is an age gap I really like him. He's an amazing person that I'd like to know better. Thanks for any advise!!
