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Hey everyone,
Have just started seeing this guy...he told me that i was "rough" (we haven't even had full sex yet!) and i apologized. We both laughed about it and he said "i'm not saying that it's a bad thing"...........i have been involved in some pretty kinky experiences, and i can tell that he wouldn't enjoy what i like........how do we compromise? We're both in our 20's...
Burn him with a cigarette during foreplay
too rough?lol. try to remember what kind of things u said or have done for him to assume that.. i think you should find a guy who is also aggressive or on the same level
You pretty much have to do things calm and (boring) what he likes, then ease him into what you like.
If you like bondage then maybe try a blindfold, or holding his hands down or something to start with, then later tie his hands behind his back or have him do you, then eventually it will turn into tying him/you to the bed.. etc..and respond with body language and verbal pleasure everytime he does something you like. it takes quite a while, but as long as what youre into isnt really freaky he should be pretty open-minded to trying little bits at a time. Don't make him feel uncomfortable though! We all have our boundaries.
bahahahah thanks everyone :)