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This guy I am seeing (we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, but we are dating) decided to tell me over the weekend about a weird experience that happened to him this last week... Apparently this girl he knows told him that she wanted to have his babies. He thinks she is kidding, but I as a female, would venture to bet she wasn't kidding. I didn't want to appear jealous so I asked him what he said and he told her something lame. Then he told me it doesn't matter she doesn't live near him anyways. He said though I was probably right and she probably wasn't kidding and that "she was pretty hard to resist."

After that last comment, I got quiet and he noticed and asked why. He then told me that he sometimes says things he shouldn't and is too honest at times. Why would he feel the need to tell me that??? Should I be worried?

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Originally Posted by Confusedmess [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

This guy I am seeing (we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, but we are dating) decided to tell me over the weekend about a weird experience that happened to him this last week... Apparently this girl he knows told him that she wanted to have his babies. He thinks she is kidding, but I as a female, would venture to bet she wasn't kidding. I didn't want to appear jealous so I asked him what he said and he told her something lame. Then he told me it doesn't matter she doesn't live near him anyways. He said though I was probably right and she probably wasn't kidding and that "she was pretty hard to resist."

After that last comment, I got quiet and he noticed and asked why. He then told me that he sometimes says things he shouldn't and is too honest at times. Why would he feel the need to tell me that??? Should I be worried?

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Simple answer, you shouldn't be worried.

If he wanted to sleep with her, he certainly wouldn't say something like that.

Guys sometimes just want to be a bit cheeky and be able to share it with their girl as a joke, not a bone a of contention.

Long story short; he likes you. Getting worried about it (and going quiet about it).. that kind of stuff; instant turn off for a guy. Guys appreciate laid back girls (I don't mean laid on their back.. just laid back)

You can start worrying when he doesn't tell you stuff like this.

wlboy

The girl sounds like she was joking. I have said "I want your babies.." when a guy friend of mine would say something funny or impressive and I was not crushing on him. I was more concerned with the guy saying "it doesn't matter she doesn't live near him anyways" and that she was "hard to resist". What if she did live by him? If you end up getting more serious with him then you should be a little cautious, but since you're not necessarily his girlfriend, just enjoy how open and honest he is! If you play the quiet game with him often, it will train him to never want to talk to you about these sort of things, and thats MUCH worse.