Should I stay or Should i Go ?
I have been going out with this guy for 9 months nw, bt ive known him for years. he used to be my best friend and i always find comfort in him. However, since we have been going out, he always critise me as he calls it 'constructive critism' which i somethimes find quite hurfull. whenever i confront him with it, he just seys that he is trying to make me a better person, which i can understand it but he somethimes forget that i am human with sensitvie feelings. I now feel that i have lost that best friend that i had, and in return got like a mentor, but i cnt imagine going out wit someone who is always trying to make me a better person, rather than cherish what he gots?
This made me quite insecure about myself and it made me compare myself with other girls that he knows, one in particulay my best friend. My boyfriend and my best friend are quite close, they are like brothers and sisters. For some reasons i do get quite jelous of their relationship because when he is around her he just forgets that im there, most of his attentiion goes to her. I confronted him, and asked him whether he liked her instead, and he sed no he doesnot, she is not really his type, nut my instinct telss me otherr wise.
so what do i do, should i remain in a relationship and work things out, or do i break up and wait for a guy that would treat me like a princess?