attraction

Hi. I was just wondering about something.

I think im a very attractive male. A few times in my life whenever ive come across the females i really liked i somehow seemed to screw it up. everything is going fine, they like me and are very attracted to me. but i might end up doing something dumb , say something dumb or just wait too long to make a move.

So my question is, when a guy is very good looking and you stop feeling him cause of something he did and stop liking him. where does that attraction go? I mean is it gone completely? Do you see him somedays and think whatever and then other days see him and think ....damn hes cute?

Currently dealing with this right now...again.