I'm being ridiculous, right?
Hi all,
I'm just looking for a little validation, or advice, or something. Recently, I've been feeling quite jealous about my boyfriend's female friends. Not all of them, only two. It seems like every other day there are more photos of him on facebook posted by one of them. He hangs out with these girls with a group of his friends often. Last week, we went to a party together and I met them (I attend and live at a different university) and they were nice enough. They didn't make any conversation with me, though- only continued to hang around my boyfriend and take pictures of and with him.
Maybe this is why: he has told me before (and sometimes jokes with his friends) that he thinks Asian girls are adorable and pretty. I am not Asian, they are, so maybe I'm making it up in my head?
I hate that I feel a pang of sadness/jealousy everytime he mentions that he spent the day with these girls. I feel like a terrible girlfriend when I do. I was thinking of just mentioning to him that I feel uncomfortable about it, but only bring it up that one time. Like "Hey, I don't want to nag you about this, but I just need to say it once to get it out of my system. I'll try not to bring it up again." I feel like if I just say it to him I might feel less want to fight about it.
What do you guys think? Should I just throw it out there but not hassle him about it? I really do not think he would cheat on me, but just the time they spend together and the attention they (specifically one of them) show him. Or should I try to supress it and hope it goes away?
Thanks so much for your time and advice! I know I tend to be long-winded!