I gave it up already.. Now what?
In July I stopped at a gas station on my motorcycle with a few friends and went in the store to get a drink. *This guy walked up and handed me a CD and started talking to me we exchanged numbers. *He lives in CT and I live in NJ which is about a hour 15 min drive. *At the time he didnt have a car. *He invited me up there three times and I said I'd go but things came up and it didn't happen. *We text each othere here and there but for the most part I was the one not responding right away. *
I guess he just backed off but this past week*I texted him and told him that we should seriously chill n that I won't stand him up. *
I went to see him and I'm pretty shy and he acted pretty shy but we talked a lot. *He said it sucks that i live all the way in NJ. *He is from the Bronx which is not far but hes away at college. *He said that we both have cars so we could both go to see each other. *He had bought a car in August and said he didn't come see me because I never invited him. *I didn't because I didn't know he got a car.
Well.. He lives in the dorm so that night me him and his friends started drinking. *His friends liked me and told him to wife me. *So we all got kinda drunk and went to a club. *At the club me and him started to kiss. *He was real affectionate towards me holding my hand and we danced a bit. *When we got back me and him went to his room and his friends were in the common area. *Me and him ended up having sex I didn't go down on him nor did he. *We slept together n cuddled. *We woke up in the afternoon and I told him that I had to go soon because I had homework. *He seemed a bit disappointed and asked me to go eat before I left. *I stayed a bit longer and then left. *
We both agreed we should see each other more often. *Now here is what I'm unsure of what to do. *He hasn't initiated convo but I have text him good morning. *Can I get him to take me serious? What if I gave the impression I was just looking to hook up? I'm really interested in him and wish I would have paid attention to him from the start. *Is it too late because I gave it up already? *Should I wait a bit then ask him to come or go see him? *Any advice from a guy would help. *Thanks in advance