Okay.. so me and the ex broke up 3 weeks ago. Been together 9 years on and off. She has an 11 year old as well. For the last 3 weeks been sleeping on my friends couch. Just before rent was due she was threatening me with having to turn to prostitution to pay her bills if I didn't help her out. She already has a well paying job, but with me not in the picture she falls short of making all her bills. I called her on her bluff, and thought it was merely a ploy to get me back, or hurt me. Come the night before rent, I asked her if she still needed it, she said no, so I left it alone. The next day I called and asked her again, she said no she doesn't need anything from me. That got me thinking. So I did a bit of snooping round, and I found out she has been seeing multiple men trading sex for money, as well as 1 guy who we originally was the reason we got into our fight over. I broke down and was devastated! I called her on it.. and she admitted to it, and hung up crying. I ended up confronting 1 of the guys and that didn't go to well. I spoke with her that night, and told her I will take care of her financial problems in the short term under the condition she stops seeing these men, and takes down that profile on the site that she's meeting them. I said it's fine if she wants to date someone, but this I can not accept. She agreed. The next day I find out she's still on the site, and she's still seeing these men, I confront her about it.. but she denies it, saying that now she's not seeing them for money but just "dating".. which I have confirmed is false 100%. So now I'm honestly torn to pieces, and also feeling betrayed that she lied to me and took my money. My question to you is what should I do now about all my belongings? The whole house belongs to me, from head to toe. I really wanted to leave it there for the kid, but having a tough time swallowing the fact of what she's doing. My reasoning is that we had a deal, and she has broken it, and there should be no reason for her to be doing these things if I'm going to take care of her financial problems. But why do I feel guilty that if I take all the stuff, I'm going to be the bad guy cause the kid has no furnacing's? And considering she has a few sugar daddies now, don't you think it's there responsibility to take care of this problem? Meanwhile I'm on my friends couch while she lives and sleeps comfortably in a home that I furnaced.. please, constructive advice needed, I have booked movers for tomorrow.
