Introducing Myself :)

People call me e or erk or erica whatever works lol! I live in podunk Iowa. I have been having a lot of relationship issues and am finally just ready to try to resolve that. I am here for general advice on how to find and keep a man, of quality! Usually I attract the bad boys, fun at first until they continue to be bad, naughty naughty. I am 34 and I am sick of the games ready for the real. I feel like I have lowered my expectations and find myself second guessing everything. I have commitment issues big time, I have been hurt by all the people who were supposed to love me. I would just like to be able to catch The One or A One and not get hurt and not hurt them. Mutual love is hard to find apparently.