Help with an argument please!
Hello all! I would like to post an argument transcript that has occurred a few days ago between 2 people. For anonymitys sake and to hide the gender of both people I will replace the names with A and B.
One thing I'd like you to keep note of and answer is, could you consider one or both to be behaving disrespectfully and if both, who more so.
This is a real argument but for unbiased answers I'd prefer to keep gender hidden. Argument occurred on Saturday.
A to B: Can't till 10. U going to apt?
B to A: if I have time why?
A to B: Can you hang the washing up I washed on thursday?
B to A: pffft expect me to hang your washing up? :P
A to B: Like i've hung yours up loads of times..yeah
B to A: I haven't done any washing in like three weeks? Well three tops that's it.
A to B: And jeans tshirts socks underwear
B to A: Not really no. Just don't see why you put wash on and then go home. Bit irresponsible yo!
A to B: I thought you'd be back on thurs after work. Don't bother, i'll just wash them again.
B to A: Yeah you expected me to do it again. Not exactly fair is it?
A to B: It's only hanging up ****ing washing and it's 'not fair'??!
B to A: Then why didn't you stay and do it if its only hanging up?
A to B: Oh so i should havw waited a couple of hours for the washing machine to stop to save you doing me a favour that wud take you 5 mins? Would you ever cop on.
B to A: You cop on! I already do the majority of everything else. Pull your own weight.
A to B: you're so lovely
B to A: You the one getting aggressive failing to understand why leaving washing is annoying
A to B: Think you've said enough, just leave me alone
B to A: so it's silent treatment?
A to B: Yeah cos ur just being nasty and i don't need those horrible texts
B to A: So you think it's ok to leave washing there for me to hang up when if you hung it up yourself it would also be dry now. What about my washing? Where will i dry that?
Just some background info.
A is in college 3 days a week for under 20 hours.
B works 4 days a week with 45 hours.
Both A and B return to their parents home for the weekend.
A claims B was disrespectful in how they spoke.
B claims A is only saying that as a scapegoat.
What do you guys think?
I know it may seem silly but this arguement could actually end a 2 year relationship due to one person claiming "on going" problems and the other denying that it's the same thing. So it is actually quite serious!
