i made a bad bad bad move!!! help!!

hello all.. my story goes as follows

met a girl a month or so and the other day went on our third date, up until this time everything seemed to be running fine however id heard from a close friend of hers that she likes to get around a bit, which doesnt bother me at all however i told her what i had heard and she wasnt too happy..(i think she thought i thought less of her because of it which isnt true) in addition to this i made a few jokes about various things (not the story id heard) and she didnt seem to take them too well.. as a consequence, later that night after i went home she told me she didnt want to take it any further becasue of the above issues. i feel hard done by and would love any advice on how/what/if to go about trying to patch things up?? any advice would be greatly appreciated, id love to see this girl again and dont want to let it slip from some silly things that were taken out of context. thankyou

okay i think you should just tell her again that what other people say about her is not your interest that you want to make that judgements yourself, ask her if she could give you another chance so you could get to know her. tell her you like her and you'd like to see her again.

I think you should just apologize to her and explain how you don't think less of her and how you didn't mean to hurt her and you don't care about her background, you only care about how she is now.

HAHA, you dumbass, you told her people think she's a slut?

What'd you expect? A blowjob?

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Originally Posted by Frasbee

HAHA, you dumbass, you told her people think she's a slut?

What'd you expect? A blowjob?

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HAHAHA saying it like it is Frasbee, lol.......yeah anyways man just tell her sorry give her a few days and come back with the flowers and all that shit that women love, all she wants is an apology