Boyfriend planning to have sex with cousin!
I'm having a huge issue and I'd really appreciate your prompt help/advices.
Sometimes I do hate myself for craving knowledge so much, because ignorance is absolutely a bliss!
But I'm aware of and can't ignore it, even though I found out through a deviated way: spy & privacy violation!
My boyfriend(of 30 years old) is planning a sexual meeting with his cousin(a childhood crush) who will be coming in March from Japan to be with him at his house.
They have been doing video/photo and sexting for quite sometime, according to FB messages that I've found out yesterday!
When she asked about my possible intrusion & jealousy, and he discarded it saying that I would be totally under control.
She's used to babysit him, and being 8 years older than him with already 3 kids of different fathers, I don't think she will have any moral problem in doing it.
She has nothing to lose, she will get lots of good sex and all of the attention she craves, noticeable by the slutty way she dresses and leads her life.
But my really stupid aquarian boyfriend is going to throw away 8 months of real hard work he had to get me to trust him and be in this relationship!
How can I solve this without breaking it off?
Our marriage is being planned by our families and just found out that I'm pregnant!