22 never had a girlfriend before
Sup everyone, Im looking for help so hopefully this year I'll be able to spend my christmas with someone special. Im 22, live in Cali, and ive never had a girlfriend before. I've had a few flings before but they never lasted more than a month, nothing official.
Im a shy guy and I suffer from social anxiety so I never make the initiative to talk to girls, I wait until they talk to me. Ive been lucky enough that a couple girls have approached me and given me their numbers. We'll go out on a few dates, and once my lack of personality and confidence shows they lose interest. Either they'll stop talking to me completely or Ill end up in the friend zone.
I screw up a lot of oppourtunities too. Theres been two girls who I invited to spend the night and actually came though. But once they're over its just a bunch of awkward silence while watching TV and we end up just sleeping next to each other.
Im looking to get more "game" as a girl once told me. Im not bad looking so I figure if I work on personality my chances would be a lot better. Lookward to any advice you can throw me!