Does he seem interested in me sexually? How do I let him know I'm interested in sex?
Okay, I'm in college--a freshman.
I just broke up with my long distance bf about a month ago and that was hard for me. However, through it all this guy I met in my college has been there with me. He's a great friend who gave me advice about my relationship troubles and stuff. He would say things like "why dont you date someone you know...here" in an awkward way. In the beginning of the semester, we partied together, he held my hand and we talked all night. It actually got to a point where I had to tell him I had a boyfriend. He sort of backed off a bit.
Now that I am actually single, I just hope I didn't ruin my chances. We are still very close but based on the following things, do you think he put me in the friend zone?:
-we hang out just the two of us a lot--eating, studying
-he makes implied sexual jokes, like we are studying in a classroom together and he's like "hmmm imagine getting f*cked in a classroom, against a blackboard?" and I reply "lol every nerd's dream" and then he's like "I'll have you up against the blackboard and go bam, bam lmao" and then I just put up on my hand and said "omg, enough lmao" and then we went back to what ever we were doing.
-he sometimes just stops and stares at me with this face (he's not making it on purpose but it's soo sexy) and it makes me blush
-but he never makes a move!! he made one before I guess when he asked to touch my hair and then he started like caressing/petting my head and then basically put his body over me but then i moved abruptly and acted weirded out :( (but it was weird, who pets someone like a dog?)
-he made a joke about AIDS and then he's like "I have HIV and do you want me to give it to you? bec i would enjoy it"
Based on this, yes he's awkward and not aggressive but very attractive. I really want to sleep with him. How do I go out doing this? I feel like I had many opportunities but I get kind of uptight/embarrassed/idk when he gets all sexual around me. I want him to know I want to sleep with him without coming out and saying "f*ck me". How should a girl approach a guy...it's not a relationship..just sex.