Division of labour / responsiblity
Let me preface this with, this is not a rant, or a bitch nor am I looking for advice or criticism. I am looking to start a discussion.
In my relationship we have an almost basic traditional division of labour / responsibility. He works 2 jobs to earn all our money and we consider taking out the rubbish and the more labourious yard duties his as well (mowing the lawn, cleaning the gutters etc). Mine are taking care of the home (oh light bulbs and dripping taps are also his responsibility), the majority of the child rearing (including dealing with school, making and keeping appts, etc etc), paying the bills, doing the shopping etc. I guess the only difference between my duties and the "proper" traditional arrangement is that I do pay the bills and take care of the finances.
So my questions for the forum...
Is it common to have to repeatedly remind a husband of his 'home duties'? (Getting him to take out the rubbish can be a nightmare sometimes. He is forgetful and I try not to nag)
How are things divided in your relationship?
If I begin work or study, is it fair to expect my husband to pick up the slack around the home?