Is it a mistake to ask my ex to get back
Ok so, my ex girlfriend and I dated for around 4 years until we broke up back in October.
It was not a clean breakup for a while, lots of arguing over who was entitled to what and things like that. But over the last few months we've stayed in contact and she has made comments about still loving me and how she wanted to marry me. And afew months ago there were a couple weeks we were hanging out fairly I have been good about not contacting her. But after the anger of the split passed I can't keep her outta my mind.
The problem is that we both rushed into a rebound type of relationship. I ended mine back in December. She is still living with her new guy. But when we talk she always makes it sound like she doesn't want to be with him and is only with him because she doesn't wanna throw him out. Tonight she texted me a picture of a love letter I had written her and asked if I still felt that way. And like 20 minutes later her bf called me, and said he knew we were texting and she was hiding it from him but he's given up on her not texting me and he's ok with it. But he knows she still loves me and gets the idea she wants to be with me and he asked that if me and her talk about doing anything we don't hide it and just tell him upfront.
Hearing that she still wants to be withe has pushed me to absolutely wanting to call her and ask her to get back together. But is it wrong/bad idea to try anything while she's living with another man? I'm really torn