read what i said properly
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Originally Posted by
HeartIsAching
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Heh... how 'bout you take a 2nd look at this post? You have obvious anger issues. I suggest you re-read this:
It's not aggressive at all for Wakeup to say that perhaps you should look into some yourself. Whether or not it was "all your fault" (and I'm sure it wasn't), you've got to accept some of the blame. Did it suck? You bet. Was it an awful thing for her to do to you? Of course it was, nobody's questioning that. It is however interesting to me that you went on the offensive the instant you didn't hear exactly what you wanted to hear.
Of course it wasnt what I wanted to hear what I want to hear is how to explain my uncharacteristic response and make her realise her aggressiveness was very both verbally then physically was quite provactive, to get her not to provoke when she knows what she is doing. She says things like she hates my first son when she knows it upsets me immensly when she doesnt have to, its to provoke me. She does it out of vindictiveness. We have discussed it between ourselves calmly, last time she said it would stop. I never layed a hand on my ex and worked like a dog to support my ex and son before she ran off. I went through 18 months of extreme depression due to her stealing my son, I have taken measures to address that. Anyway its as if my current gf expects me to just forget about my first son by my ex. So yeah I am thinking of my child and the one my current gf is about to give me. I take extreme umbrage at being told I am not thinking of my son and I WILL take advice re my children as provocative and aggressive, its not what I am asking about. Read that users post after reading mine properly, it is complete insinuation at my character, my character is fine unless you bring up my kids. The issue is getting her to counselling not therapy (there is a difference) and of course I would be there too, geez think about it. The issue is how do I calm her down and get her to go.She gets aggressive when I bring it up, wake up and learn to read.