10+dates..questions about taking it to the next level?

I've gone on about 10+ dates with this guy that I really like. We've spent the weekend together, etc. He seems pretty interested.
About 6 months ago, he got out of a 10 yr relationship. He says hes never going back with her, but there are some things they are taking care of (car in his name that she drives, money, etc).

We seem to have a connection, and he says he really likes me. This AM in bed, I asked him if he thinks I'm someone he would want to have a relationship with.

He said I ask the wrong questions at the wrong time. He didn't say it in a bad way, or mean way.
I don't want to keep going on dates with him, etc if he doesn't want a relationship.

I'm not sure what to do right now..He doesn't like to be pestered with questions.

He doesn't want a relationship and he wants to avoid your questions regarding long term. Stop letting him play you like a fool. Leave him if a relationship is what you are looking for.

Should I stop talking to him completely or give him a reason why I'm not going to see him anymore?

You're reason is clear: You want a committed relationship. Humans are hard wired to pair up so if he's not willing to, there something wrong

Geeze, 10 dates and in bed already with no idea what he is looking for? Next time (i.e. next guy), ask his intentions before sex.

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Originally Posted by Vtgirl [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

He doesn't like to be pestered with questions.

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I'm not seeing a problem with this :)

With you after 10 years RS ? I think the guy will hit the MY EX button before you blink...this is not a good deal for you,so you know.
They got a long history,lots of love...get out if you can before it is too late and dont let your ego to advise you here.