Why is nothing happening???
Will try to keep this short. I have been single for the past five years after an eighteen year marriage. After the marriage was over I was with someone for three years that I met on match.com. I broke up with her due to her one pack a day smoking. I could not take it any longer and there were other issues there as well. I went back to match.com and three other online dating sites. I cannot seem to 'connect' with anyone. I write emails as I try to avoid the winks, and for the most part they go unanswered. Some women do not even check out my profile. I feel like there is a banner that goes across my profiles that only women can see that says 'stay away' or something like that. I do get women that write or wink at me, I try to respond and say no thanks not interested if that is the case, but I don't get why so many I write go into oblivion. Either these women don't like my profile or they don't like my appearance. People have said I look like Phil Simms or John Ritter. I don't see the resemblances. For the few women that I did meet they all said I look much better in person, I'm sure we all do. And my profile reads like any other profile out there. At one time I even and a female friend of mine rewrite my profile from what she would like. I've since rewritten it. I'm 53 and don't want to be spending time looking for someone. I'd rather want to be with someone now. That is a lot in a short paragraph so I am just getting my frustration out at this point. I know at some point someone will come along, but this August will be two years that I am doing this.