Why do some guys seem to love you more after they say they want to be "just friends"
Okkk im back =) Sooo heres the thing..as you all may know ive been in a relationship with a guy for over 6 months. After he moved away we kept it a long distant relationship in which later on he decided that he didnt know what he wanted (thats why i was gone for so long..**cries**). So my bf decided to break up with me and after 6 days he was back and we were talking again. He was stressed out about the whole distant situation and so he decided we should just be friends. I obviously did not like that so we decided that we wouldnt talk until after 3 months when i could see him again and he could figure out what he wanted. While he left again i thought about the whole "friends" idea thing and realized that i would rather have him in my life as "just a friend" than not have him in it at all, it was a sacrifice i was willing to make (even though it would be hard). When we talked again i told him this and he was fine with it until it slowly dawned on him and by night he went on and on about how we couldnt do this and got really emotional, he told me i was just his and no one elses and that he needed me. When i told him that atleast we would be in eachothers lives he said it was unfair even though the whole friends idea was his idea!!!! Now he tells me he loves me every second and though i love it im really confused. He called me his love today and has been complimenting me every second but at the same time im really confused because he's been telling me that i will be the one to find his future gf. I know he's kidding but it makes me nervous (well i hope he's kidding). I dont understand why hes telling me he loves me now more..than when i actually needed him to say it. When he suggested the friends idea he was fine with it but when i agreed he had a panick attack. Im happy were talking and togather but im so confused :(
any advice or help will be greatly appreciated :)
