My Addiction to Porn and My love for my Fiance
First off I wanted to say hi to everyone and say thanks for all of your great posts.
I am a 20 year old male living alone in texas(without my family I mean). I moved down here to be with my family and to be with my now, fiance Robin, and now the family has moved away and I'm here my Robin by myself.
Ever since I was around 13-15ish I have looked at porn. I grew up knowing that I wasn't supposed to and I am a good person, I don't believe in Smoking, Drinking, doing Drugs, or Sex before marriage. My problem is that I can't stop looking at it. I have tried multiple times to stop and every time, I go back...sometimes it takes a week or even a month or two but I always do.
I love Robin SOO much. I sold my aftermarket car parts for gas money so that i could see her, and stayed here alone so that i could be with her and marry her. I dearly want to stop this addiction to porn.
She has made comments in the past about how if I ever did porn that would kill her and I will tell her but I really want to get a good strong head for myself before I go and tell her...mostly for the reason that i dont want to start again after I tell her, that would just be bad.
Does anyone have suggestions as to what I can do? As much as I love porn, it has never affected our relationship, and I am always attracted to her and would spend 24 hours a day with her if I could. But as much as it doesn't hurt us *yet* I just don't want it in our life as it might affect us later and because of her wish that she doesn't want me doing it and of course since I *really* dont want to do it.
Thank you so much in advance for your help,
Matt