Calling on friends to help me gain better perspective on this Like/Love relationship

but she seems to alternate between personally 'I really need you to always be there' and socially 'this is my friend i.e. with benefits.
I feel like a fashion accessory to her social persona but otherwise our private lives have a comfortable feel albeit a few too many loose ends.
We maybe working those issues between ourselves with the exception of the otherwise minor personality clash that seems to be inherent between a woman and a man.
2 months and counting, are there alarms going off yet.
Fell like it might burn and crash any time?