No contact or one contact?
Very short version:
GF sent FB message "please stop texting me, I've changed and don't want what were were, I don't want to see you or talk to you."
That was a couple of weeks ago, we've had no contact since.
I've gotten differing advice from friends (some are mutual friends with her) and family.
either 1. no contact means no contact, don't say a word to her or even let her know anything about your life now, if you contact her it's disrespectful because she asked you not to
or 2. it's okay to send ONE (and only one) message just saying "I still love you, and I'm here if you change your mind." (or something like that)
(the people in category 1 either say I don't need her and should move on or that "she knows she feel that way about her, you don't need to tell her.")
Opinions?