getting marry soon but......

I’ve been with my partner 7.5 years. At the beginning of dating period, I found out he had a very special interest – pretend his ex-girlfriend posted her half nude photos on those dating site or share those photos on some forums. I already told him it’s very unacceptable due to 1. pretending ur ex-gf? 2. post half nude photos? 3. he keeps watching their bodies make me so upset. I believed he stopped for a while. However, I found out he went to those dating website again. Now I don’t know what he’s playing, pretend again or he actually looking for “Matches”. I understand a man look for some porn site, it’s acceptable and he knew that. However, we are getting marry 5 months later. I feel so helpless.

Anyone can give me some advice please?

it calls for the are we on or off talk. anyone getting married shouldnt be on a dating site. playing pretend is very bad at this point in the game. its possible you may want to speak to a marrige counsular ahead of time or a pastor if your going that route. i kinda feel this is a major red flag and could deem your wedding off.

Just trust the man and get on with your own life. You can't force people to stop what they like to do. Well I personally think his not kind of respecting you. But its not that big of a problem is it?