I'm thinking of breaking up with her.

I love my gf, we have a great relationship most of the time.

Why do i think about breaking up with her?

Because of communication problems.

Sometimes she wants to gossip, or say nasty things about someone, I tell her to stop, if she wont ill call her a bitch. Gossip, insulting people, that just is not me.

I like to talk about books, she has told me to stop this, I ruin the books by talking about them.

But I like talking about them. Just as she likes a gossip.

You should not call her a bitch. You should break up with her and leave her shit talking mouth behind.

You are not compatible...oh well it happens. Nothing wrong with moving on.

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Originally Posted by pogobunny [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I love my gf, we have a great relationship most of the time.

Why do i think about breaking up with her?

Because of communication problems.

Sometimes she wants to gossip, or say nasty things about someone, I tell her to stop, if she wont ill call her a bitch. Gossip, insulting people, that just is not me.

I like to talk about books, she has told me to stop this, I ruin the books by talking about them.

But I like talking about them. Just as she likes a gossip.

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From what you said, she needs to stop gossiping, and you need to stop talking about a book, before she has read it.

As far as I know most women like to gossip or basically discuss others. You will be faced with the same situation no matter whom you are with. If everything else satisfies you, why end a good thing?