After years of being alone...its happened

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15-07-12, 05:01 AM
FortyLovebut20

After years of being alone...its happened

:emot131: Love.

I posted a few lines a couple of years ago about someone I was very interested in, and feedback was "he doesn't seem keen" and you know what you were right!

So lets bring things up to date :emot16:ANOTHER dilemma!

oK so its like this.. It is love, Ive never been in love, but THIS is. Thing is, I have known it since I first clapped eyes on him in January 2011, & you know what? I still am admiring from the sidelines. He has NO IDEA of my feelings!!!

But what I Do know is this - he's interested, hes single, yet, neither of us have actually done anything. We are just 'friends' Hiding my feelings is the most difficult thing Ive ever had to do. Im like a kettle on the boil, but looking ice cold on the exterior.

so my question? What do I do? The reason why I haven't discussed anything emotional is because I'm scared of making a fool of myself!! YET I just want to grab him and kiss him. I have 18 months of stored up lust for him.. he has no idea at all. Im a good actress. OK, Im sure I cant cover up everything, im sure he MUST know YET nothing is done.

Im not sure I can wait any longer!
15-07-12, 05:07 AM
Boisdevie

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Originally Posted by FortyLovebut20 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

he's interested, hes single, yet, neither of us have actually done anything.

If he's so interested why hasn't he made a move then? Why haven't you? If I'm lusting after somebody I'm not going to sit around on my hands doing nothing about it. Stop wasting time and do something.
15-07-12, 05:12 AM
FortyLovebut20

Maybe its because Im his patient!!!! (medical field)
15-07-12, 05:20 AM
Boisdevie

Medical person having relationship with patient = problem with medical ethics? Perhaps why he hasn't made a move.
15-07-12, 05:34 AM
FortyLovebut20

This is what I was thinking. Always a hug hello & goodbye, and he has given some strong hints, biggest being his comment "hope you dont mind me saying you look very 's' ending in 'y' word today! "To which I replied "thank you" and he has hinted that he would like to take me on vacation to one of his favourite places in the future, so maybe he has a hidden plan Ive yet to discover

Incredibly frustrating never-the-less!
15-07-12, 06:05 AM
lana2

If you know for sure that he is interested, than the best thing you can do is fire him. Fire him from being your healthcare provider, that way you and him can freely do whatever
you want without him worrying about his job.
15-07-12, 08:07 AM
FortyLovebut20

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Originally Posted by cheekxs [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

patient of what? psycho?

That wasnt a very nice thing to say! In fact your whole post was horrid (and useless)
15-07-12, 02:05 PM
Boisdevie

The valid point has been made. Stop having a patient/medical person relationship with him then you're free to date. So are you going to do this?
17-07-12, 08:18 AM
FortyLovebut20

Yes I think this is the best option! Thanks Boisdevie x
18-07-12, 12:33 AM
Boisdevie

Cheekxs please can you **** off and take your stupid opinions elsewhere.
18-07-12, 03:49 AM
saving_grace

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Originally Posted by Boisdevie [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Cheekxs please can you **** off and take your stupid opinions elsewhere.

just report cheekxs that user is rude in all there posts I am reporting
all I see that are rude
18-07-12, 03:53 AM
saving_grace

good luck with your new Love.. I would either write a letter or request a meeting and let him know that you are interested in him and then tell him you need to not be seen by him profesionally so you can see him personally.. don't be shy step up and tell him how you feel
25-07-12, 04:14 AM
FortyLovebut20

Thank you everyone who helped

Watch this space! xx

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