Should I drop hints to him or tell him verbally?

We were walking towards our destination when he slipped his hand into mine. Before he could popped the question, I slipped my hand away and rejected him. I rejected him not because I dislike him but because he took me by surprise and I reacted out of shock.

We acted as if nothing happen after that . Now, I am ready and wish to enter the relationship. However, I am unsure of how to express this over to him. He keeps a distance from me now although I noted that he has his eye on me everywhere I go. Should I express this to him verbally or drop hints on him? How should I tell him?

Kiss him, he'll understand.

that works or tell. hits are just bullshit

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Originally Posted by reda [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

We were walking towards our destination when he slipped his hand into mine. Before he could popped the question, I slipped my hand away and rejected him. I rejected him not because I dislike him but because he took me by surprise and I reacted out of shock.

We acted as if nothing happen after that . Now, I am ready and wish to enter the relationship. However, I am unsure of how to express this over to him. He keeps a distance from me now although I noted that he has his eye on me everywhere I go. Should I express this to him verbally or drop hints on him? How should I tell him?

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Hahaha ... well, you should tell him by being aloof and "not wanting anything from him"... after all, if a man is interested, he will do anything to be with you, irrespective of how many times you "reject him", right? right? after all, men do not think for themselves and have no feelings, right?.... RIGHT?

Now that I have illustrated the absurdity of the situation, the answer is: you have to verbalise to him how that you want him, otherwise forget about it, he will move on. I think he is moving on now, actually...

He is moving on, I believe. Today, he was exceptionally distant and if he really was interested, he would have tried on to woo me. However, he doesn't even bother now. It's like he gave up after one failed attempt. Damn, guys can be so dumb sometimes

reda, have you read our advice? Since you rejected him, now it's *your* turn to show him that you are interested. Otherwise he'll obviously move on! Do something before it's too late. Talk to him, kiss him, whatever, just as long as you let him know that you are interested.

Popped what question?

Wow, it's amazing how some people ever manage to breed.

Yes, sea rock i did read your advice. I want to talk to him but seriously, it takes so much courage to do so. I need to go get drunk first.

wow your a peice of shit. you really need to get drunk 1st to talk to him seriously. wow lame. its take 3 seconds to say somthing stupid when your drunk and honestly id ignore a bitch drunk anyway stupid vangina.

Well, you have the type of situation where girls reject you and they mean it, and those who do it and they don't mean it.

You can't expect a guy to know which it is. The first thing that comes to mind is, you've rejected him because you aren't attracted, interested.

Now, the only way you can get him back is to verbally let him know this. There is just no way for him to know that. A lot of guys have also been turned off by the paranoid girls who scream stalker at the first sign a guy is attracted to them and is persistent.
So, you can't blame the guy for not wanting to touch you with an eight foot pole. It's the fault of women like these some guys give up way to fast. But, this is ok, because it will create balance. When guys stop going after girls at the drop of a hat, the girls will stop being overly dramatic and paranoid as they will be more desperate. It's really something to see how things get balanced in life.

I will update you guys tomorrow! Wish me luck

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He is moving on, I believe.

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He is moving on because all he knows is you rejected him. And try to find your courage outside of a bottle. Courage comes from inside you, not from a bottle.

If you want him, tell him quickly or you will lose him. Be very direct and do not be subtle.

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Originally Posted by reda [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

He is moving on, I believe. Today, he was exceptionally distant and if he really was interested, he would have tried on to woo me. However, he doesn't even bother now. It's like he gave up after one failed attempt. Damn, guys can be so dumb sometimes

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Daaayumn, I can't believe I have read what I have read here... It is you who are dumb here ...