My girlfriend's parents are very controlling and she supports them?!?
Alright so me and my girlfriend are together for 3 months now. I'm 16 and she will be 16 in 3 months.
We are very happy together and we love each other and her parents love me! But the problem is they are very controlling and they limit her way too much and they have weird rules. For example, they don't allow her to meet with friends before 4PM. They don't allow her to get on a bus. They don't allow her to spend a whole day with friend, even if it's a special day (birthday to a friend, our month anniversary) and so on... and they don't allow her that because they want to see her and they want to spend time with her, they want her to stay at the house a lot. Their family is very attached and strong, almost every day they meet with their family. Her parents are so controlling they will never let her daughter skip a day of meeting her family to spend time with me. I don't get this. She's the child that every parent would want. She always listens to her parents, she never rebels, she's a straight A student and the list goes on...
I talked to her about it numerous times but she always tells me that she hate those conversations and that her parents will not change and that it doesn't bother her and she's cool with that. I respect her, but on one hand she tells me that she would love to meet with me more and that she would do anything to see more but on the other hand she says that she supports her parents and that there is nothing she can do about it.
Well, that the hell? lol What can I do? I wanna see her more! I wish her parents would free her a bit so she could live and have fun!
Any tips on what I should do? Should I just leave it and respect her and accept her problems? Or it is something worth fighting for? What do you think?
Thanks for the help!
P.S: Sorry for any English mistakes or grammar mistakes... I am not American.
