Gone on two dates

There is this girl that I'm talking to. I took her out to two dates so far. We had fun both times. The first time she texted me after the date that she had a good time. I drop her off today, but she didn't texted anything. I just texted her that I had fun, and she she said thank you for the food and the place was good. What irks me was when the bill came I told her I'm going to pay for it. She said that I paid for it last time, so she can pay for it today. Anyways, I told her I paid for it. What irks me was that before she left, she told me that I need to stop paying for her. That she will pay on the next date for us?

Don't take it personally. The first few dates are a time for both of you to see if there is compatibility, and maybe there isn't. It doesn't mean that either one of you is a bad person, just that you aren't right for each other. Squabbling over who picks up the tab might be a sign of different values, which is often a dealbreaker.

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Originally Posted by gotexans12 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

There is this girl that I'm talking to. I took her out to two dates so far. We had fun both times. The first time she texted me after the date that she had a good time. I drop her off today, but she didn't texted anything. I just texted her that I had fun, and she she said thank you for the food and the place was good. What irks me was when the bill came I told her I'm going to pay for it. She said that I paid for it last time, so she can pay for it today. Anyways, I told her I paid for it. What irks me was that before she left, she told me that I need to stop paying for her. That she will pay on the next date for us?

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Pfffst! Consider yourself lucky dude! Wish my girl pick up the bill more often :)

She wants to pay her fair share. She's a modern woman. I consider that a pretty good thing. Don't you? Me and my GF have split the tab since day one.