My girlfriend doesnt want to have sex with me as often than we used to.
Ive been with my girlfriend for almost two years now. We moved in together about 4 months ago. Before we moved in together I would spend the night at at her moms and she would spend the night at my parents. We couldnt keep our hands off of each other. We would always talk about getting a place together so we wouldnt have to sneak around anymore. Im lucky if i get it once a month now. I remember the moves i used to put on her when we first started dating none of that works anymore. When I come home from work or she does i'll do the moves, now shes's like get off of me. This is a huge blow to my self esteem i start off thinking what am i doing wrong? does she not want to have sex with me anymore? And then there is this thought that crosses my mind which is utterly devastating, is she getting it somewhere else? I need a females opinion here. what else can i do? I love her immensely, shes the love of my life. I feel really depressed. When shes laying next to me and we are going to bed she can see that something is upseting me. she says whats wrong babe i just answer back nothing babe im cool. when im really not. I just dont want to tell her " hey im mad because we havent done it for an entire month" because then she'll give me the silent treatment for a week. I dont want it to blow up to a huge thing because the she is going to feel like im forcing her to do it. im just really unhappy.