Where are we? I mean friends?

1st, it's my bad, coz the other night i was damn drunk and stucked with this guy

and then what happen next is that, i find myself liking this guy....
but this guy say he want a fdship with me only
and say there is no potential.......

anyway, the other day, we met , and before i left, i asked for a hug ( ya, just a hug)........then....i got it,

and i felt something, something that makes me confused....

i mean, if u dont feel anything about someone, u won't hug like " locking ur arm against the other tight" right?? i mean real tight.....


it just like my bf hugging me......i mean, every fd hug me like just hugging, just touch and let go......but he was like "holding me tight".....

omg, i am being desperate....... :(

Alicias,
Yeah i think i've been in the same position before. All you can realii do is sit and wait, But also let him know how you feel about him. Yeah although it might be a Tight hug it might mean something but then again it might not mean much at all. Remember one, dont grip him too tight by this i dont mean in a hug but ingeneral. Give him some space to breath. But only time can tell.

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Originally Posted by xplodinjohnno

Alicias,
Yeah i think i've been in the same position before. All you can realii do is sit and wait, But also let him know how you feel about him. Yeah although it might be a Tight hug it might mean something but then again it might not mean much at all. Remember one, dont grip him too tight by this i dont mean in a hug but ingeneral. Give him some space to breath. But only time can tell.

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understand that......
waiting is the most painful process of all
been thinking to see other people.but it may make me like a bytch....

Actually, he never contact me.....is me reaching him always....
soo sick of acting like a stalker.....

Anyway, should I keep contacting him or wt?? wait for him to call??

go to the places he goes but dont contact him

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Originally Posted by diesel on air

go to the places he goes but dont contact him

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only know his gym and the pub he always goes.....

but he's those kinda home guys...
always get home after work.......and his working hour is like 24/7

All you can do is tell him how you feel. Ball is in his court then.

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Originally Posted by Strangelove

All you can do is tell him how you feel. Ball is in his court then.

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dont. it would chase him away.
wait a week or so and then go to that pub in your most glamorous looks with your friends, say just 'hi' and ignore him

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Originally Posted by diesel on air

dont. it would chase him away.

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Depends on what kind of guy he was. I wouldn't be chased away. I'd be flattered, even if I wasn't really interested. I'd at least think about it.

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Originally Posted by Strangelove

Depends on what kind of guy he was. I wouldn't be chased away. I'd be flattered, even if I wasn't really interested. I'd at least think about it.

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I told him already, he said no potential..........after that is that hugging thing...

I don't think you can really read much into the hug. Friends hug all the time, and some people hug really tight just by nature. Maybe if he planted a kiss on you, heh.

we, women like to embelish stories and make them appropriate to our needs, dont we? ;)

Guys too, I'm sure. Haha.

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Originally Posted by diesel on air

we, women like to embelish stories and make them appropriate to our needs, dont we? ;)

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some people can be a real good liar, esp with themselves :sad2: