Am I Pathetic?

I had a relationship with my coworker for about a week but then it came to my surprise that he started a relationship with an another coworker after a week we started the relationship...I noticed that my boyfriend started to act differently but then I still trust him until finally I started to felt something different from him...I heard rumors that he has a relationship about the girl out of curiosity I added the girl since I knew the girl she added me and we had a conversation at first I never admit that we had same boyfriend what I did is to asked information from the girl then after that I texted the guy. and finally he admit and he said he didn't want it to happen it just came all of the sudden...He did not realize that he is falling inlove with the girl now and before I came he said the girl was his close friend. It hurts to find out that he lied to me...The next day I talked to the girl and the girl said to the guy about our conversation...I can't believe that the girl did not listen to what I'm trying to tell her that we both lied to...she still listen to the guy and said I was the one who is pathetic and just looking for an attention. The guy said I was the one who give the motives to start the relationship. What Am I going to do? do I still try to talk to the guy about what he told me? or should I stop texting the guy. I am so hurt about the incident...I removed my bf in FB but I did not remove the girl.

He is a douche and she is stupid. Delete and stop talking to them both, you're better than they are. If they try to talk to you politely tell them "I'm sorry, do I know you?"

wwhat about go to work for what they hired you for? WORKING!!

instead of messing around with colleagues that is not professional.

leave it, stop seeing this loser and they deserve each other. be professional. live your life and learn a lesson out of it, no messing at work.

Pathetic? No. It happens, in or out of the office. He's a cheater, it's not your fault - be glad you found out early.

OTOH, it is a good idea to not shit where you eat... in other words, the office isn't a good place for romance.

Listen to cerby and HIA, they are both experts in patheticness.