Ok, this may be long, but its driving me nuts because I don't have a clue. I need some advice.
I started college in August. Met a girl in the smoking area, and we hit it off..and once a week before our classes, we would have great conversations. Eventually a couple weeks ago, I realized we may have something, so I gave her my number.
For the next week, she'd text and call me several times a day. It was great. She even asked me to visit her at her work, which I thought was cute.
Last week, she came over my place, 2 nights in a row, to watch movies, until like 2am. There was a lot of cuddling, lots of kissing, and tons of talking(nothing sexual). We discussed our flaws and stuff and realized we're like perfect for each other. We both agreed that we were strangely comfortable with each other. She went on to tell me that she had a thing for me from day 1. Even after she left both days, she texted me, saying "I didn't want to leave!"...point I'm making is: this was a 100% mutual thing, but I suggested no rushing sex or a relationship and she agreed. we both didn't want to screw it up.
Fast forward 2 days later. Didn't hear from her all day. Eventually I text her and say "you get bored of me already? lol". no reply. so around 10pm I say "I hope everything is alright. its not like you to disappear. let me know if you're ok.". she finally replies around 11 and says "its not that. I was at a cookout all day. why would you say that?! you know I like you. I can't have someone who expects me to be tied to my phone"(keep in mind, she was the one who initiated EVERY phone call, and more than half the texts). I apologized for assuming, then she said she was going to bed and would talk to me soon.
2 days go by, still haven't heard from her.
I'm 27, she's 23..so we aren't immature kids just having fun. we truly had something, I thought.
is there ANY girl here, who may have some idea Wtf happened?? I'm really hurt over this.
