Hi,
I haven't posted here before, but thought I'd give it a shot.
I've been with my wife for over 6.5 years, but married for only 2.5 years. Over the course of our relationship we have had our ups and downs like anyone, but over the past year I feel like our physical affection has dwindled to near nothing. Don't get me wrong, we still hold hands when we walk down the street, hug each other alot, and show a lot of "normal every day" affection, but when it comes to more intimate affection, she basically shuts me down.
At this point I have basically stopped trying because I don't want her to think that I'm "pressuring" her. The only problem is that anytime (which has become rare) I try to approach her for more than just a hug and a kiss, she pretty much pushes me away and gives me some lame excuse.
So in a nut shell, my sex life is non-existent at this point, I have stopped trying to have sex with her for fear that it will just turn into some arguement, and I don't know if I can take it anymore. It shouldn't be like this. I won't go into a laundry list of other crap, but if anyone has some suggestions, I'm open.