He doesn't know.... should i tell him? Please!!!!????
Ok there is this guy. We've had a rather "complicated" relationship. Ok, a couple months ago, in feb or so, he liked me apparantly. But i didn't it know it. I was hooked on this other guy who turned out to be... well not for me. Anyway, i had no idea. Well in like march one of his friends whos my friend whos a girl told me that he was going to ask me to prom but that she told them i was already going with my bf. Well my bf and i didn't last. In fact, he even decided to take someone else to prom so i was completely dateless. Anyway, when i found out that that guy liked me i was completely siked (sp?)! I mean he's totally sweet and we've always sorta been friends, we talked every once in a while. Well, anyway, the next month, our school went on this europe trip and he and i went. And i decided that that was my opportunity. So i hung out with him a lot and i really got to know him well. We talked a lot and about tons of things. Well i heard this rumor on the trip that he liked this girl who's his friend (lets say her name is Sally). Well, i was of course crushed. But i had to hear it from him. So i asked him and he was really shy about it and was like no i shes just a really good friend. so i was like well ok. But since i was still hearing that from other people, i just forced myself to stop liking him. I started hanging out with my ex bf who i'm still friends with (the guy who dumped me for prom no less). So then i heard that he told her that he liked her and she told him she didn't like him. So i was like whatever, and i just figured he didn't like me anymore. So we get back to school and we still hang out and talk and stuff. Well, we had prom last night. At prom, he brought his friend from an old school. Anyway, on the very last slow dance before he left he actually came and found me and asked me to dance. he held my hand as we walked to the dance floor. So we talked while we danced. He said that i looked really pretty tonight. And i told him he looked great too. I finally got the nerve to say Your date is really nice. He said yeah we're JUST (he emphasized this word) really good friends. Anyway, what i'm saying is that i'm sooooo confused. I don't know if he still likes me or he likes me just as a friend. Should i make a move? The thing about him is that everything just clicks. It feels right. We can talk just casually. But i just don't know what to do. And it hurts so much. Help!!!????? ANY advice or comments would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!