why limit yourself to only one?
It occurs to me as I scan the forum that many of the posts are of the sort:
Jane likes/love Paul but also likes Joe. Or Paul love Jane but also likes Sue, etc. With all the ensuing drama.
My question is: Why the big deal? Why are we so stuck on exclusivity in relationships? I don't believe that you can only like/love one person at a time, so why not love/like more than one? Not saying to cheat, be honest, but wonder why we are sooooo stuck on this concept that we have to only be with ONE other person at a time, forever, etc.
I mean, if we think rationally about it, and try to ignore the primal, possive urges, is there REALLY anything wrong with being with more than one person at once? WHY is it wrong? In modern society do we really require monogamy? If so, WHY? Maybe we are allowing our biologic programming to rule our thinking on this. Just food for thought.
And no, I'm NOT a mormon (and have nothng against those who are). Just opening a new discussion. ;)