What will he think of my crazy family... help.
My long distance boyfriend surprised me with, "I am coming to stay with you for a few weeks; through Christmas and New Year". Well.... we have known each other for a little over two years and committed to each other for a year. This will be his first time meeting my daughter who is fourteen. That is a big deal in itself but in addition- Christmas! That means he will have to meet my family who is crazy... my dad has schizophrenia and makes inappropriate comments and mutters about money problems all the time, my mom is loud mouthed and ridiculous and has a wart on her nose and my sisters are alcoholics and their kids are cute but rambunctious! I have only told him about my dad's illness and he knows my sisters drink alot but when he actually meets them I worry he won't want me anymore. ALSO- he hates cigarettes and my parents each smoke at least two packs a day and my sisters smoke too.... I am a nervous wreck. Any advice???? Please help me... I worry that he will see me in a different light now and maybe think twice before settling down and reproducing with me now!:(