How to go about it?

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19-12-12, 05:08 AM
cleancoupe

How to go about it?

So I've been talking to this girl I fell for from work. We've been talking for the past 3 and a half months and gone out twice. Last time we went out I had a lot of fun and we made out and all the stuff. She also mention she had an amazing night. By her doing this she gave me more hope to be around her more. Anyway that happened friday. Saturday we didnt talk at all. Sunday came and we had a shift together. She was a little bit weird but seemed out of it. Like she was tired or upset. Maybe because I wasnt doing my job she got mad at me. I dont know. Anyway monday came and she didnt text me. Tuesday came and I texted her "good morning, hope you have a good day" she replied, " good morning, it was nice waking up to that text, hope you havea good day aswell", For some reason i thought she was going to text me that night, but she didn't.

I'm thinking too much about this and feel like she has lost interest. Maybe she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I think of the worst things possible and it doesn't let me function properly throughtout the day.
What might be the reason she hasn't texted me? is she waiting for me to take the initiative to text her? I dont want to come across like a needy, "nice guy" and annoying.
Am I over thinking the problem.
Thank you for your opinion. This has me really upset.
19-12-12, 05:28 AM
BackUpOrGetStng

Go after other girls and pay her less attention. You've already tried taking the initiative and it isn't working.
19-12-12, 05:33 AM
cleancoupe

Is that how this stuff work. I'm new to all this so I have no experience in how to play these kind of games.
I really like her. If I text her will I push her away rather than keep her more interested?
If I dont will she come looking for me?
20-12-12, 05:19 PM
glitterisfun

If a girl doesn't call or text or make any efforts at all....then she is not interested.

It depends on the person but I m very direct, if I am interested I will let the person know....for real, either by a note, card or a phone call or something email even....some girls like to play games but i don't so i need to know how old you guys are here, i have never been on these online places before, as I have always met people at work or in real life and do things literally in action. Anyways...just ask her directly...via text or at work during break.
20-12-12, 10:50 PM
Wakeup

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So I've been talking to this girl I fell for from work. We've been talking for the past 3 and a half months and gone out twice. Last time we went out I had a lot of fun and we made out and all the stuff. She also mention she had an amazing night. By her doing this she gave me more hope to be around her more. Anyway that happened friday. Saturday we didnt talk at all. Sunday came and we had a shift together. She was a little bit weird but seemed out of it. Like she was tired or upset. Maybe because I wasnt doing my job she got mad at me. I dont know. Anyway monday came and she didnt text me. Tuesday came and I texted her "good morning, hope you have a good day" she replied, " good morning, it was nice waking up to that text, hope you havea good day aswell", For some reason i thought she was going to text me that night, but she didn't.

I'm thinking too much about this and feel like she has lost interest. Maybe she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I think of the worst things possible and it doesn't let me function properly throughtout the day.
What might be the reason she hasn't texted me? is she waiting for me to take the initiative to text her? I dont want to come across like a needy, "nice guy" and annoying.
Am I over thinking the problem.
Thank you for your opinion. This has me really upset.

You haven't asked her out since the night you made out? Quit texting and ask her out on a proper date... it doesn't even have to cost you anything or very little. You are'nt progressing this any further by texting her lame shit like "have a good day." Make it happen and stop talking about it is my advice. If she turns you down to go out then to hell with her, move on from her and find someone who does want to be with you. Once you have your foot in the door (alreacy making out)... stop texting and do things that will help her to bond with you.