Originally Posted by shh!
Not yet; will be, though. I am doing pre-req's for an RN program. The fact that no one here can diagnose her mother via the internet without benefit of medical records and medical training is, well, to be blunt, absurdly obvious.
By the way, Ladygirl, you asked, "What gave you the idea I was paying for any of this by myself?". Must have been this post you made: "I'd like to know so I can start planning for her funeral". This statement clearly implies you are the one responsible, particularly since you mentioned your mother was accepting money from friends to see a doctor. Obviously, she is not wealthy.
Yes, the info given was done so genuinely and in good spirit. It was good, practical info for someone who claims they are wanting to start planning a funeral. I SAID I was sorry about your Mom, and normally people would accept this as an expression of sympathy. I think it is sad when anyone goes through this. But really, what more did you expect? Did you think I should actually weep?
Honestly, your reaction makes me wonder if perhaps you have embellished this story. Are you perhaps looking for a little attention?