didnt know where to post this...
so basically if you have followed any of the other posts you will get the jist of where im coming from...basically i brought up a child which was not my own for 4 and a half years, we split up and for a few weeks i was still able to see him and he would come and stay at my house at weekends, she has now cut me out of the child's life completely, as to 'avoid any unnecessary confusment ' i was thinking of writing him a letter so when he is old enough he can read it and know that i wasn't somebody who just walked out of his life without a care, could this backfire on me in anyway? or does any one have a reason as to why i should/shouldn't do it??