Any chances of getting back?

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22-01-13, 10:58 AM
bjjstar

Any chances of getting back?

Hey guys, I'm new on this forum and currently I'm looking for some advice to try to get back with my ex girlfriend.

So the situation here is that we were in a very good relationship before until I had to move all the way across the world and I didn't talk to her much afterwards. I know in the meantime she had gotten another boyfriend but has broken up recently. Now after six months I have moved back to where she is and I've seen her a few times already. The interactions went pretty good and we had some good conversations. But after hanging out we don't really text a lot unlike before she would text me all the time. I know I still like this girl a lot and definitely want to get back with her. I haven't told her anything about my feelings after I got back but I feel like she doesn't like me anymore and only view me as a friend. So can anyone please give me some advice on getting back with her? Thank you.

Sorry for my bad english, it's not my first language.
23-01-13, 06:36 AM
bjjstar

Can anyone give some insights?
23-01-13, 06:38 AM
ashley89

I would ask her exactly how she feels, there's really no other way to find out. and that way you will know for sure and then can either be in a relationship with her again or move along and find someone new.
23-01-13, 09:09 AM
LoveDocJon

The rule is one chance per girl, per lifetime. After the relationship is over, there is no going back. Sorry guy, but that's how it goes. You also mention that you still like her, but that doesn't matter. It's all about how she feels about you. You could love a girl so much you'd take a bullet or two for her, but none of it maters in the love game if her interest level is below 50%.
23-01-13, 11:15 AM
smackie9

She had to move on emotionally long time ago to the point she is feeling numb...so now that door is shut.
26-01-13, 03:13 PM
bjjstar

Well are there any ways I can get her interest levels back up again?
26-01-13, 06:53 PM
Boisdevie

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Originally Posted by bjjstar [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well are there any ways I can get her interest levels back up again?

Win the lottery. Women seem attracted to men with lots of money.
But back here on planet reality your chances are slim. Relationships usually end for very good reasons. So why did it not work first time around and what's changed so you think it might work this time?
27-01-13, 03:48 AM
smackie9

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Originally Posted by bjjstar [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well are there any ways I can get her interest levels back up again?

From a woman's perspective....no there is not.