7 months ago my ex-boyfriend J.D broke up with me because he would be going away for work for 5 months. He cried and said he didn't want to break up with me but had to do so because keeping me in a relationship and not being able to have time to see me was selfish. After seeing him cry I promised to come back after the 5 months and ask if we could start again. I sent him a text message wishing him a happy birthday as I was supposed to return on his birthday. It was short simple and sweet "Happy Birthday J.D xoxo" but I got nothing back. So in a way I gave up and now I'm dating a 34 year old (Grant) who has three kids with his ex-girlfriend, and my parents hate him and still love J.D. It got to the point that my parents kicked me out to live with Grant and have nothing to do with me as apparently according to my parents “[I] Chose him over [them]” when in actual fact I chose no one. He may get them back on the 10/02/2013. I love Grant but I still miss J.D a lot. I do think about J.D a lot and sometimes when Grant and I fight or he does something wrong that upsets me (Like for example he started flirting with older other women on the internet behind my back and I told Grant about how J.D would have never done that to me) I think about J.D and how good our relationship was and how he wouldn't have hurt me the way my Grant does sometimes. My parents loved J.D but hate Grant :upset:. They said that I chose him (Grant) over them and they kicked me out so that I have to live with him now. I just don't know what to do I love Grant and my family and also J.D but I can't go back to J.D now. I need help, please help :emot101: was saying, she was fine.