I have a question for the fellas: how long does it take for y'all to commit to a woman? im tlkn no side relationships (text partners or friends w/ benefits).
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I have a question for the fellas: how long does it take for y'all to commit to a woman? im tlkn no side relationships (text partners or friends w/ benefits).
Bad question. Some idiots will do it in a day. Some never.
Only in the 21st century would a question like this be asked!
Ya I agree it depends on the guy and how much they are into you. Your BF (if you call him that) isn't that into you....so I say never.
Agree with Smackie on all counts. His guy isn't into you enough to stop playing the field. He may stop when he finds Miss Perfect, but you're not it.
If the girl is a flexible giver who laughs at my corny jokes, and only after she shows me this through her actions, will I think about it after around 8 to 10 dates (around 3 to 4 months). If you're talking about marriage, then after 1 to 2 years.
Its crazy how all you people keep your options open. That rarely happens here where I live. I would never go out with a man if I thought he was sleeping with someone else. Thats just wrong. Maybe this is why the divorce rate is so high in America
2-3 weeks until she have special place in my heart. It takes likeable personality. If a girl gives me 100% true smile and I can tell it comes from her heart than Ill open up too.
took me just over a month to tell my now wife i love her
It's actually a very good question, when/if you think about it...
Committing too soon is seen by girls as clingy or needy. Too late and their holes are wet and they're getting shitface wasted in frustration about when a guy is going to finally commit. That's how these broads work.
I could connect so deeply with a woman in a couple of weeks that I want her and only her or I could have to get to know her for years. Measures of time are much too arbitrary for this sort of thing for me to be able to give you an accurate assessment, it's going to be based on the type of chemistry that we have, how deeply we connect with each other, etc. It's also going to be a gut feeling on my part, I trust my instincts and if they tell me to pursue a commitment I will, I don't really care how long it's been.
Just read OP's other thread and now it's all clear.Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
LoveDrunk, other posters are trying to tell you and while it may fall on deaf ears here's one more - this guy will never, ever commit to you. Your username is very appropriate for your situation, you are literally intoxicated by your own hormones and emotions to the point where it has reduced your judgment and perception to the point of oblivion. Stop now and you might end up with a hangover, which sucks, but hangovers are nothing compared to alcohol poisoning and that's more along the lines of what you're likely to end up with if you continue to inebriate yourself with your un-returned love and desire for this guy.
As a Man, I decide to commit the second I realize that I don't want no other man's shlong in my gf's mouth/vagina. :)
lmfao hahahaha