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How should i ask her out?
In my lecture class in college, there is a girl who i have taken a liking to..
I admit i am introverted and i haven't had too many flings in my life, now that i look back, i can see that so many girls liked me at many stages ( because of the evidence of it i see, in my recollections :D) but it never really got anywhere.. I had a fling a few months ago but it ended nowhere...
So in college as of late i have so far not been to active in socializing and much less dating, the classes go fast and are short and cut between, living me as a quiet guy with little to no valuable interaction with anyone..specially in lecture classes...
Sometimes though i might see a girl that intrigues me because she might look like an easy or affordable try, ( considering what i perceive to be he modus operandi, her "culture" and who she is) ( i prefer to look for someone who might be similar with me, atleast with first impressions...call it educated fishing of some sort..) and i did that once last semester with 1 girl but i never did anything, and now i have found another intriguing girl..
She captivates me because i find her to be gorgeous, she has a short set of hair, but very nicely shaped and groom, and looks cute, reminds me of audrey hepburn.. [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register], but on top of that, she looks like a nice girl, not too social, or high maintenance, and shes pretty but other features like her timid face ( i find it to be timid, somehow) demeanor, and height make me believe that not many cultures of people would ask her out like the hip hop, or video gaming cultures, etc if you get my drift..
Giving m the conclusion that you either have to be a rather open minded "culture-less" person like i am, some specific hipster type, lesbian to probably ask her out..
Those are the ideas that she brings to me..ideas of security to ask her out as a stranger and have atleast some sort of chance and reason to even think about doing it..
I'm not needy or desperate but it's been sometime now and i want to have fun, might as well give it a shot right..
Well she is in my lecture class and sits like 50 or 60 feet away from me, and we do have assigned seats, and on top of that the class only meets twice a week for 50 mins a day..
Giving me the idea that if i want to ask her out i basically have to do it as a stranger, letting her know my purpose, without the option of delibaretly going through a set up of events like sitting next to her one day..
So my question is..how should i ask her out?
The premise of it imo would be an asking out, consisting of a message that gets clear as being sincere, clean, charming, non creepy, heart felt, confident, and that gets my point across clear well..
I was thinking of basically telling her( obviously not THAT straight forward...), and then telling her that she can email me with an answer if interested or forget about it and that case closed..
So i want to make it a charming proposal with all the spices to at the very least leave her complimented even if i get rejected.. :)
Sooo...Tips?:cool: