Wan't to talk to a guy but can't
I met this guy on a dating site. He messaged me first. We chatted for a while, mostly joking, and he said he was looking for an intelligent person to talk to. The next day he said he wanted to walk in the city but didn't want to do it alone and offered me to meet. It was unexpected but I agreed. He didn't even care how I looked (he didn't see any photos of mine), only wanted me to be an interesting and cheerful person. I also asked his phone number in case I would be late or something but I didn't gave my own number. When we met, he said hello and hugged me. He was very talkative and and we had quite nice conversations. But that was not a date , more like a meeting with a buddy. We only wandered in the city and talked for a few hours, that's all. We didn't ask each other personal questions. At the end , we said goodbye and hugged each other. Now a week passed and he hasn't written me anything and neither did I. I think that this was the only time we met and we'll never talk to each other, because everything was so random, like an adventure meeting a person you don't know. I would love to talk to him again, as he seems to be a really nice and interseting person. But I'm really shy and extremely afraid to write him a message or even text on cell phone. I think that maybe he didn't like me, maybe he likes other girls, or simply isn't looking for a relationship now. I only like him as friend but I think that it's possible for us to be a good match to each other and I could like him more than a friend. I actually have no experience in dating and although I'm pretty and nice person, I have problems with my self esteem, I'm shy, introverted, don't have much social life, so I guess that's not cool.
So I'm afraid to write him but I doubt if he will do that. I think it's better to forget him, but I still think of him. It wasn't a date where you are supposed to text a message saying how nice it was afterwards. I guess he could message me because he is probably very self confident and social but maybe he's just not into me, maybe he doesn't take other people seriously and has already forgotten me. It would be embarrassing if I messaged him and he wouldn't want to talk to me. I know guys like when girls make first move and I probably could write him something friendly but what if he will see it as more than a friendly move. Valentine is coming, but I would feel awkward saying him something because of this occassion. Could anybody help me about this situation? Thank you.
