What is a woman really looking for?
1. CONFIDENCE- You hear this all the time… women love confidence. Well, its true. But what does that mean? A man who is confident in himself will not give into her tricks and doesn’t care what type of negative comments people are throwing at him because of the man he is. Women like to test a man’s frame to see how his INNER confidence is. Pumping up your chest or dressing like you are a billionaire will not show a woman that you are confident. Be relaxed. Chilled out. Keep your arms by your sides. If you want to build up your confidence levels, your competence levels must rise first. This will come from real life experience… There is no book, video, post, or psychic who can put you under some type of hypnosis that will all the sudden make you more COMPETENT. Going 100 miles per hour on a Hayabusa, would you rather have confidence (according to Wikipedia: a state of being certain either that a hypothesis or prediction is correct or that a chosen course of action is the best or most effective) or competence (according to dictionary.com: possession of required skill, knowledge, qualification, or capacity)? Treat women the same way you would the bike and you will be successful instead of falling on your face.
2. FUNNY- There is a HUGE different between someone who is funny and someone who is a clown. Essentially, women want a man that they can feel comfortable with. There are quite few different theories about how laughter creates comfort and quite honestly, most of them have been proven true. If you can make a woman laugh she will generally feel more comfortable with you.
3. SOCIAL INTUITION- The guy who can always find his way through the crowd. He is always aware of his surrounding and in complete control of his actions. He can allow himself to be comfortable in any situation be it a crowded night club or his own living room. Having this trait will ultimately show that you are a confident person. If you and her were 300 miles from home and your car broke down, you have no tools, will you be able to find someone to fix the car and get her home safely? That’s what is going through her mind and if you want the best women, that’s what should be going through yours too.
4. HEALTH- Health does not mean that your abs have abs and you have basketballs where your shoulders are supposed to be. It is a shame that some men can not figure this out but make sure you are CLEAN. Shower every day, at least once a day, brush your teeth, wash your face, shave, floss, make sure your clothes are clean and all beat up… If you want a desirable WOMAN, it’s time to MAN up and do this shit. Don’t be afraid of feeling “feminine” because you “wash your face.” The definition of insanity is repeating the same thing and expecting a different result. Many women say that they would give a guy more of an opportunity to talk if they would clean themselves up a bit. Try it.
5. STATUS- Meaning power. Whose the boss? Is it you? or does somebody else make your decisions for you? That’s what she wants to know. Women have always wanted the man who is in control, the leader. They want the guy who IS the event and everybody wants to get to know.
6. WEALTH- Wealth does not necessarily mean money, it means access to different resources and a skill set that will be able to support her and her offspring. Like I said, logically, women don’t need a man to support her in today’s society. But emotionally, that is what they seek. Money actually doesn’t mean much to a woman once you have established the attraction between the two of you if its just MONEY.
7. PRE-SELECTED BY OTHER WOMEN- This is very simple. Women want what they can’t have and what other women do have. There is an experiment that was done that scientists had placed a male penguin among several female penguins and none of them would come close to him. Then, the scientist placed a stuffed female penguin next to the male penguin, then all the female penguins started to move towards the one male. People are the same way. If you want the queen, you have to show her that you can have any princess you want first.
